PLEASE READ THESE TERMS:
STEPH MADAMBA Sunday, December 17, 2006
Authentic love is chosing your partner exactly as he is; it is putting your energy behind your choice and causing the relationship to be magical, rather than searching for reasons why it can't work. Love is supporting your partner in her choices, urging her to fulfill her heart's desires and go for all of her dreams.
Authentic love is honoring your partner's truth and wanting the very best for him. It is not controllng or possessing but rather respecting and trusting his unique path in life. Love is the courage to tell the truth especially when you believe it is unspeakable.
Authentic love means knowing your boundaries and respecting those of your partner; it means reaching out when you don't want to, communicating rather than assuming, and asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions. Authentic love means working things out rather than fighting, fighting rather than leaving, and staying through the misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and disappointments, knowing that through commitment all can be healed. It means staying when you want to give up, and honoring your commitment to work things out with the one you have chosen.
Authentic love means focusing on what you appreciate and why you are grateful. It means focusing attention on your partner and letting her know each day how much you care. It means treasuring your beloved and never taking her for granted.
Authentic love means living without judgments to create the safety to tell your truths. It means living each day with your partner as if it were your last. It is the willingness to be yourself and live in harmony with each other.
What does an authentic relationship look like? It looks and feels real. It thrives on honesty and shimmers with truth. An authentic relationship flexes and bends with the fluctuating needs and changes of each partner and gracefully weathers hardships. Both partners are committed to the growth and evolution of both individuals in their respective life paths. Much like the diamond used symbolically to represent the bond of matrimony, an authentic relationship sparkles with brilliance and light while maintaining a solid and enduring core. It is the context in which true love was meant to exist.
Of course, this is the ideal. The real fun ----- and opportunity --- lies in reaching for such a vision.
well, there it goes. mejo nabbore nako sa walang ginagawa kaya i tried to look for something up to read. i found this one in ate's cabinet.. thanks to her.. il be reading something worthwhile with sense... hay! maiinlove nlng ako sa libro. baka ung libro hindi ako sasaktan.. out nako ulit.. il read this!!..
Authentic love is honoring your partner's truth and wanting the very best for him. It is not controllng or possessing but rather respecting and trusting his unique path in life. Love is the courage to tell the truth especially when you believe it is unspeakable.
Authentic love means knowing your boundaries and respecting those of your partner; it means reaching out when you don't want to, communicating rather than assuming, and asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions. Authentic love means working things out rather than fighting, fighting rather than leaving, and staying through the misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and disappointments, knowing that through commitment all can be healed. It means staying when you want to give up, and honoring your commitment to work things out with the one you have chosen.
Authentic love means focusing on what you appreciate and why you are grateful. It means focusing attention on your partner and letting her know each day how much you care. It means treasuring your beloved and never taking her for granted.
Authentic love means living without judgments to create the safety to tell your truths. It means living each day with your partner as if it were your last. It is the willingness to be yourself and live in harmony with each other.
What does an authentic relationship look like? It looks and feels real. It thrives on honesty and shimmers with truth. An authentic relationship flexes and bends with the fluctuating needs and changes of each partner and gracefully weathers hardships. Both partners are committed to the growth and evolution of both individuals in their respective life paths. Much like the diamond used symbolically to represent the bond of matrimony, an authentic relationship sparkles with brilliance and light while maintaining a solid and enduring core. It is the context in which true love was meant to exist.
Of course, this is the ideal. The real fun ----- and opportunity --- lies in reaching for such a vision.
well, there it goes. mejo nabbore nako sa walang ginagawa kaya i tried to look for something up to read. i found this one in ate's cabinet.. thanks to her.. il be reading something worthwhile with sense... hay! maiinlove nlng ako sa libro. baka ung libro hindi ako sasaktan.. out nako ulit.. il read this!!..